Kelli Provocateur
Kelli Provocateur
Occupation: Professional Dominatrix
Location: Houston, Texas, United States
The Sex In My Business: My work in the adult industry is about the sexy art of controlling men, which includes mentoring aspiring professional dominatrices. I also speak publicly about my experience as a professional bodybuilder in the business.
A Typical Day: I start my day by checking emails when I get to the office. If I have a scheduled domination appointment, I prepare the setting for what my client has requested. When my schedule is free, I follow up on messages and organize my dungeon space. I enjoy cleaning my toys and coming up with new ideas while being productive. After I’m finished cleaning, I go to the gym to stay fit and strong.
The Best Part: My favorite part of my job is that it gives me the ability to let someone who usually controls their environment submit all that power and control to me. I also love when people tell me how I have changed their life or how I have helped them feel more secure in themselves.
The Worst Part: My least favorite part is dealing with people who don’t know what they want and reaching out only to waste my time.
How I Got Here: I got into my line of work over 15 years ago when I was an ambitious young lady in college. My boyfriend at the time enjoyed being dominated, so I went online and researched BDSM (bondage, discipline or domination, sadism, and masochism). Eventually, this led me to join a fetish lifestyle website where I reached out to some local dominatrices and fetish performers to deepen my understanding. My first professional experience was with a client who was into financial domination and crossdressing. We agreed to meet at a local bank branch, and I saw this tall man dressed in a red strapless dress and high heels. It excited him to meet me! I took him to the ATM and said “Give me all your cash, you sexy slut.” He replied “Yes, Goddess. I don’t deserve any of this money.” and put all this cash in my hands. It was exhilarating and empowering.
What Society Thinks: I think attitudes toward my job are mixed. Most people honestly don’t know what a dominatrix is, so they associate it with beating men up and being cruel when it is actually more mental than anything else. Some people find my work cool and interesting, and many women feel inspired when I tell them about it.
When I’m Not At Work: I enjoy working out and going to art museums. I also love history and learning about different cultures.
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