Hudson’s Story
Wrestling has been a huge part of my life—I have been doing it since I was six. As a sport originally intended for male competition, I would say it conveys traditional ideas about masculinity and “being a man”. This has made it less welcoming for LGBT people. I frequently encountered sexist and homophobic language in the locker room, for example—it was part of proving one’s masculinity. Those who were different or did not conform were looked down upon. It was difficult to speak out against this culture and conduct in the sports world, but I was a very successful wrestler, so perhaps that gave me permission.
One day, during my senior year, I decided to wear an equality sticker on my head gear. This act garnered criticism from my peers, but I subsequently received around 2,000 emails from closeted athletes thanking me for it. These emails got me thinking: if a small gesture from someone like me could have such an impact, how much more might be accomplished if it came from someone famous like a professional cricket or football player?
This idea became the cornerstone of Athlete Ally, which is a non-profit organization I started 10 years ago in response to this experience. Our main goals are to provide visibility to out athletes and to show support to those who are closeted so they know they are not alone. It is our mission to make sports more inclusive by educating athletic communities, advocating for changes in policy, and encouraging activism among athletes. We do this because we believe that being a good team, sponsor, coach and fan does not just mean winning or loving the game, it also means respecting the individuals playing it. Because sport belongs to everyone.
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Artist Notes
Published Jul 1, 2020
Updated Oct 25, 2022